If babies and toddlers have milestones in the development of their abilities and motor skills. So, adults are also expected to have several skills to prove that they are mature and have abilities appropriate to their mature age.
Here are some abilities you should have in your 30s. Anyway, check it out!
1. Manage Personal Finances
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By the age of 30 you should be able to manage your own finances well. Adjust expenses to income, prioritize obligations (for example: costs for electricity, water, petrol, etc.), don't be wasteful, and learn ways to increase income.
2. Fulfilling Commitments
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To be successful, you must be a reliable person and fulfill commitments. So that later you can build trust in yourself and in others. Well, this confidence is needed to get a good career, run a successful business, and other things.
3. Keep Calm
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There is no greater sign of immaturity than losing control of one's emotions. Getting angry or losing your temper may give you a sense of satisfaction when you let it out.
However, this can ruin the atmosphere. Look for ways to stay calm when situations and conditions make you uncomfortable and your anger is provoked.
4. Be Resilient
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According to Etiqa, pressure and burdens at work will always be there and befall everyone in their career journey. When you are in your 30s, that is, you are mature and mature, you need to be tough so you can survive in your current workplace.
Especially if you have a lot of financial responsibilities. For example, supporting a family, paying debts, paying medical expenses, children's school fees, and so on.
Remember that you have to be strong, look for solutions and motivation, and learn from experience to stay where you used to earn a living.
5. Manage Stress
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Learning to manage stress is especially important in this decade. Otherwise, your mental and physical health can be affected. Therefore, find activities that can help you relieve stress.
Like asking for advice from people you trust or professionals (counselors, psychologists, or psychiatrists), and enjoy nature to control negative emotions that are disturbing your soul.
6. Communication Skills
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You will have more difficult conversations as you mature in age and responsibility. These conversations can take the form of discussing complicated relationship problems, complaints about work, and how you defend yourself in front of people you respect.
The more skilled you are at conveying what you think or feel, the more potential you can solve problems with the people around you.
7. Forgive
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To quote Thrive Global, forgiveness or the act of forgiving is about releasing emotions and resentment towards someone who may have hurt you. This is not about forgetting, but to remove the pain in yourself and as a form of love for yourself and the person.
8. Public Speaking
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According to Bobby Powers, public speaking is not just about giving speeches at official events, speaking at seminars, or on stage. But also how to speak in front of lots of people, even if these people are people you know.
9. Receive input well
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Reporting from Ladders, it may be difficult for us to hear when we are blamed, reprimanded, or scolded because our work is wrong so that we can learn to be better. So, this is why you must have the ability to receive input. Especially if you are starting to have three heads.
The way to listen to input well is to put aside your emotional side and focus on the information or warning that is being conveyed to you.
10. Apologize Sincerely
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In connection with the seventh point, you also have to start being able to convey requests sincerely to other people if you have done something wrong to them.
According to one CEO, the six strategic steps are to immediately decide to apologize, apologize directly (face to face) with the person concerned, explain the reality and your problems well, and convince him that after this your relationship will improve again.
Of these ten abilities, which one do you want to improve and develop further, Beauties?
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