Everyone certainly wants to look attractive and look pleasing in the eyes of other people. However, it turns out that many people think that being attractive is only about physical beauty.
Although it cannot be denied that appearance is important in giving a first impression, it turns out that there are special characteristics that can make us attractive in the hearts and eyes of other people.
As reported by the BBC, appearance and sexiness were ranked middle in a survey regarding the characteristics of a person who is liked by society, while material success such as financial condition and having a nice house was actually one of the least important attractive qualities.
In contrast, traits such as friendliness and intelligence consistently score higher than physical attractiveness as things that attract men and women.
So, what is your personality that will make you look attractive in the eyes of other people? Let's take a look at the following explanation!
Believe in yourself
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Many studies have found that strong self-confidence creates attraction. Everyone can imagine someone who attracts attention, even if they are not the most beautiful person in the room.
However, attractive people have deep beliefs that can make people around them respect them. This belief makes other people see that that person has something special. However, please note that the most attractive people are those who are confident but never arrogant.
As is
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Authenticity is everything to be a personable person. When you try to be someone you're not, it can cause discomfort.
Maybe it will look fun if you always impress other people and even cover up your shortcomings. In fact, research actually finds that weaknesses that appear in you and when you want to admit them, are actually seen by other people as something better.
Independent
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One important component of someone looking attractive is when they look out of reach or rare. As reported by Hack Spirit, according to Dr. Robert Cialdini, a leading expert on influence, stated that the scarcity principle states that people are more interested in options or opportunities that are rare, unique, or whose availability is decreasing.
A good way to achieve this is through independence. When you are able to show yourself as an independent and autonomous person, it will maintain a healthy distance between yourself and others, giving you enough room to grow.
Think positively
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People who are addicted to negativity are very unattractive. The person is always complaining about something and seems difficult to satisfy.
The energy from negative thoughts will also drain energy from the body, so it is not surprising that people with negative thoughts are not liked by other people.
On the contrary, people are attracted to people who think positively and optimistically, can laugh and smile. Apart from that, this person can also see the good in various situations.
Open minded
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Being open-minded is not only an attractive personality trait, but also a lifestyle choice. The benefits of this attitude are not only beneficial for yourself but also for the people around you.
Being open-minded will make you a more empathetic person, appear to be a better listener and appear to be a critical thinker.
Self-awareness
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One of the best qualities to have is self-awareness. It is also the key to truly knowing yourself.
Knowing yourself better will allow you to be more confident about everything you have. Apart from that, being self-aware will also make it easier for you to recognize and understand your shortcomings. That's what will make it easier for you to change and grow.
Ramah
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Research finds that the wider a person's smile, the more attractive the person will appear. Even if the appearance is relatively unattractive, a happy facial expression will still make up for it.
Happiness is also seen as the most attractive emotion in women. It's not surprising that smiling is an instant way to appear more attractive.
Attention
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Attention is an important element in building closeness. This will also make you more attractive in someone's eyes because you are able to build intimacy with them.
You certainly can't do that if you don't listen to what they say, dig deeper into their lives, or show a strong interest in them.
Sense of Humor
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Humor is very relative. Not everyone finds the same things as funny as you see.
However, one thing is certain that humor is closely related to attraction. People who crack jokes have a much better success rate.
Apart from that, they will also look more attractive and intelligent. Whether you're the one cracking the joke or telling it, the ability to laugh with others is one of the secrets to appearing more interesting.
Be Good
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Despite what many people say, it is not true that good men or women come last. In fact, if there is one trait that has the most impact on an attraction, it is kindness or compassion.
Countless studies have even found that altruism, kindness, support, and empathy are the things we look for most in a person and most desire. Not only that, altruism is also a determining factor in the success of a marriage.
These are some of the things that make your personality appear attractive in the eyes of other people. Do you already have the personality above?
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