Miscarriage certainly leaves its own trauma for mothers who experience it. This trauma may be difficult to disappear and may appear if the mother is trusted to conceive again.
This is what the singer of the song Bojo Galak, Via Vallen, felt. The feeling of happiness because she was pregnant with her first child did not necessarily eliminate the trauma after experiencing the fetus not beating.
The trauma is still haunting
Via Vallen is currently pregnant with the fruit of her love with her husband, Chevra Yolandi. Via's pregnancy has now entered the second trimester, to be precise at four months of gestation.
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Getting pregnant is a very happy thing for Via and Chevra. However, this happiness was still accompanied by the trauma she felt due to her previous pregnancy.
Via is known to have become pregnant after one month of marriage to her husband, Bunda. Unfortunately, the pregnancy could not be maintained because the fetus in her womb did not develop.
“Ehhh, not long after I was eight weeks old, on October 1, I checked with the doctor again, on the ultrasound it turned out that the future baby was not beating and not developing,” explained Via as quoted from the broadcast channel on her Instagram account @viavallen.
This caused Via to experience deep trauma to this day. This trauma also slightly changed the view of the singer from Surabaya towards pregnancy.
“Until finally he was cured on October 20. After that, trauma. “I was afraid of this and that for months,” said this 32 year old woman.
Deciding to postpone sharing the news of pregnancy because of trauma
Trauma after experiencing the fetus not developing, made Via refrain from sharing the news of her pregnancy. After the miscarriage she believed that the disease was real and avoided it as much as possible.
“I believe that the water is real. Maybe, there were people who didn't like the news of my pregnancy. Finally I decided not to tell anyone that I was pregnant again. “Including my own husband,” said Via
Therefore, when she found out that she was having two bodies, Via did not share the news with many people, including her own family. Until finally he shared the news because the condition of the fetus was stronger and developing well.
Having lost her prospective fetus at eight weeks of age made Via feel stressed and difficult to accept reality. What's the complete story? Read more on the next page, Mother.
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