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#HiMothers, you must have heard the term toxic marriage often, right? Could it be that your mother and husband are experiencing this? As a couple, of course we need to know the signs and solutions to problems in the household.
As explained by Family Psychologist Sukmadiarti, M.Psi., Psychologist, toxic conditions in marriage are characterized when the relationship makes someone feel unsupported, understood, humiliated and attacked.
According to him, this makes you tend to feel worthless, unloved, unappreciated, sad, angry, or even afraid of your partner. This condition causes problems.
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“As a result, the relationship becomes unhealthy and as an individual it is prevented from being the best self,” said Sukmadiarti to HaiBunda.
As two different individuals, husband and wife certainly have their own characters. Mother certainly won't deny that the meeting of two characters under one roof sometimes triggers various conflicts.
So, to what extent is a person's character the cause of a toxic relationship in marriage? Sukmadiarti said that personal character greatly influences household conditions because character can influence the way a person responds.
“A calm character allows you to respond to problems wisely, listen, understand, support and continue to do good even if your partner is at fault,” he said.
“Conversely, an emotional or sensitive character makes oneself tend to respond to problems rashly, hastily, blaming, judging, degrading, which makes the problem bigger and the partner feels uncomfortable.”
So, what to do? Can a person's character be changed to prevent a toxic marriage? Come on, ask directly on HaiBunda Live Instagram @haibundacom on Tuesday, February 13 2024, starting at 14.00 WIB.
Mother Sukmadiarti will answer various questions regarding the theme, namely Recognizing the Signs of Toxic Marriage in the Household. This program will be hosted by HaiBunda Managing Editor, Zika Zakiya.
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