Beauties, are you questioning your partner's commitment to your current relationship? Maybe your partner seems indecisive about future plans, or casual daters always keep things vague and non-committal.
The most common sign that your partner is not fully ready for a serious relationship is often answering questions with “we'll see” or “maybe one day” when discussing the future of your relationship.
Furthermore, there are many sentences or expressions that indicate that your partner is reluctant to commit to you. The following review is summarized from Ideapod!
Just Go With The Flow
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This phrase may seem casual and spontaneous at first. However, when it comes to commitment, this expression can be a red flag. Someone who utters this phrase often indicates an unwillingness to make plans or set expectations for the future in the relationship.
Whenever you discuss important topics like living together in the future or planning a vacation in the next few months, your partner tends to casually distract himself by saying this phrase. This is a common way to avoid commitment and makes you unsure of where you stand in the relationship.
I'm Not Sure What I Want Right Now
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Has your partner ever said this? This phrase often indicates a sign of uncertainty in the relationship. Moreover, this can be a subtle indicator that your partner is not ready to fully commit. Of course, it is not surprising that a person's actions often reveal more about his intentions than his words.
If someone is unsure about their feelings or the future of their relationship, their actions may be consistent with a lack of commitment. For example, you notice that your partner always avoids discussions about the future, is hesitant to introduce you to family and friends, or is not committed to plans.
You Always Criticize Me
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This is another phrase that often raises red flags in a relationship. Statements like these can say a lot about a partner's readiness for a committed relationship.
In healthy relationships, constructive criticism plays an important role in encouraging personal growth, mutual understanding, and not pointing fingers. However, if your partner often views your feedback as unwarranted criticism, this may indicate his or her reluctance to engage in open communication for long-term commitment.
I'm Just Focusing on My Career Right Now
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When your partner frequently says, “I'm focusing on my career right now,” it may initially sound like a valid and admirable reason not to dive deeper into the relationship.
But is focusing on their career actually a subtle sign that they're not ready to commit? This might make you confused. On the one hand, you definitely want to support your partner's ambitions. On the other hand, when this sentence is said repeatedly, it could be that this is just an excuse for your partner to maintain distance in the relationship.
Believe me, you really need to support each other's goals. But not at the expense of future relationship growth. Make sure there is a balance between you and your partner to achieve mutual understanding.
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