#HiMother Thank God, I am now pregnant with my third child and entering the third trimester. This pregnancy feels different from being pregnant with your first and second child, Mother.
Before, I didn’t feel anything. But in pregnancy now, the whole body really feels it. The difference is, in the past I was always pestered by my in-laws. I can’t do this or that!
Now, thank God, I don’t feel any interference from my in-laws because we don’t live together anymore. But the difference is, I lack support from my husband. Whatever problem there is, my husband always tells his mother.
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Long story short, I collected money for childbirth expenses. Alhamdulillah, up to 5 million rupiah was collected from the social gathering and the results of influencer jobs. I kept the money with my husband.
It turns out… When I asked if the money was still safe, my husband said he only had 1 million left. Haaaaah??? He said he didn’t spend the money.
“It’s for you every day,” he said, which made me annoyed.
It felt really sad to hear my husband say that. He also said that the baby’s equipment was paid in installments by his parents. Understandably, my in-laws have a baby equipment convection.
“Mama said, don’t give it to your brother’s old one, it has to be new,” said the husband.
If that’s the case, that’s not bad, buying more baby equipment is expensive. Sad Mother, I have to face the attitude of my husband and in-laws. Every day I have to shed tears.
I want to tell other people, I’m afraid it will be a long night. In the end, I kept it to myself even though I was confused about what the birth would be like.
I always strengthen myself and the child in my womb. We can be strong, God will surely give us sustenance and strength for both of us. Now, just waiting for the predicted birth time in 2-3 more weeks.
Pray that it goes smoothly, Mother… I have resigned myself to the attitude of my husband and in-laws. Hopefully there is the best way for us.
-Mrs R, domicile confidential-
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